Tuesday, August 19, 2025

Looking and Facing Love

What Belongs to You
What Belongs to You 





“Love isn’t just a matter of looking at someone, I think now, but also of looking with them, of facing what they face.”  ― Garth Greenwell, What Belongs to You











This short, three-part book tells the story of an unnamed American teacher who lives in Sofia, Bulgaria. The narrator's intricate and transactional relationship with Mitko, a young male hustler, is the main topic of the first and third sections. Their interactions are motivated by a complex power dynamic, loneliness, and desire.

The narrator considers his traumatic upbringing in the American South, his tense relationship with his father, and the causes of his internalized shame and trauma in the middle section, which is a lengthy, continuous paragraph that serves as a potent confessional interlude. The narrator's current fears and obsessions are crucially contextualized in this section. The book has a focused, intense feel because of its brief length and divided structure.

Greenwell's masterful prose is both lyrical and intellectual. His sentences are often long and intricate, but they are not merely ornamental. They are dense with meaning, emotion, and philosophical reflection, creating a sense of a mind in motion. The book demonstrates bravery and honesty, particularly in its depiction of sex and the less-than-ideal aspects of human connection. Greenwell doesn't shy away from depicting the messy, conflicted, and sometimes painful realities of desire.

The consciousness on exhibit pierces your heart; it is a novel of eroticism and desire. Seldom have I come across such a powerful, lean story.

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